Meagan Goode is gracing the cover of Upscale Magazine’s June/July issue. Timed with the release of her upcoming movie, “The Love Guru”. Innah-resting stuff….The article – NOT the movie.

When it comes to L-O-V-E, Meagan says,

“I looked at the whole Halle Berry and David Justice thing, and it just broke my heart,” she says in a strong whisper. “I used to think if I’m really, really beautiful and really, really successful then I won’t have to worry about this and that. And then you grow up and realize that none of that matters…”

*SIGH*

Sadly, there are a whole lotta of folk running round thinking that same thing, finding themselves perplexed and making comments like “If Janet Jackson/Halle Berry/insert-name-of-“the-beautiful-one here” can’t keep a man, then what hope is there for me?”

A friend of mine told me many years ago that “Fine” ain’t neva, eva gonna win against “CRAZY”.

Ya’ll know what J. Anthony Brown says, “Don’t let the fine fool ya!”

Love takes a bit more than physical beauty. And it runs deeper than whatever piece of success you think you have on lock.

Dig deeper folks. Let’s keep it 100 ok……yes, physical attraction is important. But we know how subjective that is.

What’s a deal-breaker for you where physicality is concerned? I’ve heard people talk about not going out with someone or breaking up over what seemed to be some shallow stuff. But hey, you likes what you like and if you smart enough to know what that might be, I can’t be mad at cha. More power to you.

I had a girlfriend tell me once after she went through a break-up that she was only going to date “ugly men” because “they’d be so grateful to have somebody – anybody – that they wouldn’t cheat.”

Ok…so much was wrong with her statement and thought process. So very, very, VERY much.

Like…suppose that’s the same reason HE is dating YOU? LOL
Like…define “ugly”
Like…cheating ain’t confined to those the world deems “beautiful”
Like…WTH??

Anywho…Meagan says that what she THOUGHT…and that we grow up and realize that those aren’t the things that really matter.

Good for you Meagan – good for you.

Now to drive the “bandwagon of maturity” really slowly through the streets so the rest of the world can climb aboard.

Live DELICIOUSLY!
*~* MsJayy *~*