Comments on: Attraction Factor: Indifference

By: admin

admin — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 03:55:14 +0000

Yeah, “coy” and “stank” just don’t mix.

By: CreoleInDC

CreoleInDC — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 03:42:52 +0000

Gotta keep ya stride STANK chica! Ain’t ish coy bout that. ROFL!

By: admin

admin — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 02:33:47 +0000

Mmm hmmm….don’t even fake Chick! YOU know coy…not saying your “do” coy wif yo’ bold self. LOL

By: CreoleInDC

CreoleInDC — Tue, 05 Jun 2007 02:27:31 +0000

Coy? Coy? What is this you speak of?

By: admin

admin — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 18:08:06 +0000

Shai - I think historically women have been taught to be “coy” which is not the same as ‘indifferent’ in my mind. “Coy” says I’m interested but I’m shy, reserved or cautious. Indifference smells of “I can take it or leave it” to me. *shrug* Either way, I’m not a big proponent of anything game-like. Not big on false barriers - I know most folks have some barriers or walls but to just invent one in hopes to attract someone? Naw. Doesn’t work for me. To each his own though.

By: admin

admin — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 18:04:53 +0000

Soulfull - Girl…you keep on with ya “Disappearing Acts”. Hmph! I’ve been looking out the window, worried about you. Glad you like the decor. LOL

Yeah, I’m not much on games (heck, I don’t even like card games or board games that much. lol) regardless of how’s doing it. Be real with your stuff. Sheesh!

By: shai

shai — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 17:39:01 +0000

That is funny. I do think women have been taught to play hard to get in such a was that it is a form of indifference. I do think since the tides are turning women are becoming the pursuer hence the men act indifferent. At least that is part of my take on it.

By: SOULFULL

SOULFULL — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 17:22:31 +0000

“Indifference on his part breeds indifference and “NEXT!” on my part. It may attract a “female” but it doesn’t do anything to attract a grown a** woman.”

Now that’s what I’m talking about. A grown a** woman is not about juvenile games of indifference. Either you want to be with me or you don’t. Why play coy? That’s so old…. NEXT!

(By the way, LOVE THIS WEB LAYOUT!!! )

By: unknowndiva

unknowndiva — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 15:50:09 +0000

definitely took it as a challenge…a very personal one too!!!

these days i’m trying to challenge myself in other more productive ways.

love aint supposed to be easy but it aint meant to be that type of a “challenge” either. ‘he’s just not that into you’ is a damn good phrase if u ask me!

By: admin

admin — Fri, 01 Jun 2007 15:09:43 +0000

I’ve never been a fan of “indifference”. Me no like what feels like ‘rejection’. Too much of it, too upclose & personal when I was younger so I avoided it like the plague.

I get how people are pulled to it - no such much being “attracted’ to it but rather taking it as a challenge. That was too risky for me.

Yeah, a friend said he thought I was “overly cautious” and I laughingly told him he could tell it to me stratight: HELLA SUSPICIOUS. LOL