9:11 AM, February 28, 2007

MsJayy said…
LOL. Girl, I was just minding my bidness & here they come with they nonsense so…i had to go to the breakdown or as I like to call it “the J-Factor”. LOL

9:16 AM, February 28, 2007

chele said…
Whoa. Get down girl, go ‘head get down.

3:55 PM, February 28, 2007

MsJayy said…
LOL Thanks Chele.

4:06 PM, February 28, 2007

Shai said…
I understand Jackie. Truth can be so raw and real it scares some folks.

9:05 PM, February 28, 2007

MsJayy said…
I’m sure it does. Heck, it scares me too. But I know that my fear doesn’t change the truth. Besides, like I said, I was just minding my own business, blogging ’bout myself & here they came so…you get what you get. LOL

9:19 PM, February 28, 2007

princessdominique said…
You keep telling the truth. Forever women, black women to be specific, have been struggling to find their place in society, in media and in general relationships. To have someone say that they are “there” or have “arrived” I question that too. It’s a continuous process, so no one is 100% there. You wouldn’t imagine the people I’ve met both men and women who talk a good game and appear to have it all together only to secretly confide that they feel unworthy or less than. I say that they should let you tell “your” truth and then slowly but surely begin telling “theirs”. When they tell their story, only then can they grow and move forward and stop focusing on everybody else.

12:06 PM, March 01, 2007

TrulySatizfied said…
Girl…you are the bomb! I dont know what else to say about it. I have mad love for you and your mind…just off of this ONE POST! Cant wait to read thie rest.

12:45 PM, March 01, 2007

Peggy said…
I read this first. I missed the previous post, so I of course doubled back to read it. I related fully to every word. Fully.

1:14 PM, March 01, 2007

MsJayy said…
Dom - *smh* That whole ‘talk a good game’? I don’t want to play that game anymore. I just want to BE & have that be enough regardless of the situation.

Truly - awww, thank you for your kind words. I tell you what, sometimes the scariest place to be is in my mind. LOL

Peggy - it was quite a revelation when I actually realized just how much I was asking that question in my life. I truly believe that the “simple” asking of the question is where the healing starts. I pray it is so. :O)

5:59 PM, March 01, 2007

princessdominique said…
I had to come back to read the comments. I knew they were coming. This post is too real, and I still stand by what I said.

10:19 AM, March 05, 2007

MsJayy said…
LOL Girl I’m still wrestling with enough”. Trying not to ‘overblog’ on the subject but it won’t let go. :O)

10:42 AM, March 05, 2007

QueenJoya said…
With tears in my eyes I Thank you for Truth.

1:41 AM, March 06, 2007

MsJayy said…
Queen - thank YOU. So many times we think that it’s just me & even in my struggle, in my aim to tell my truth & free myself, it is a blessing to know I am not alone.

6:35 AM, March 06, 2007